A Love/Hate Relationship
SOMETIMES I JUST WANT TO KILL those blasted deer that raid and pillage my garden!!! Then there are times I just sit and watch with wonder as they stroll along, mom and two fawns. Yes, it is truly a love/hate relationship, and that works for those little furry squirrels that destroy my bird-feeders!
It’s this love/hate relationship that drives me crazy. If I didn’t really care for the critters I would do something drastic to them, but I really do care for them…I just want them to go eat somewhere else! To rewrite a turn of phrase, I want them to have their cake, and I want to eat mine too. Is that too much to ask? Apparently so.
That seems to be the problem in so many areas of life, even in my relationship of following Jesus. There is this love/hate relationship. As Jesus says in John 12:25, I must hate this life if I am to truly bear the fruit that declares my love for God. I cannot have it both ways. Jesus calls us to death so that we can live. Truly, I would like to have it both ways. But, as Jesus illustrates, a seed must die to itself if it is to accomplish the goal for which God has designed it. What is true of the seed’s God-design, was also true of Christ’s God-design, and must be true of the Christ-follower.
This hating of life is not a loathing of our existence, but rather a loving of that for which we were created, and of course a greater loving of the One who created us. The seed, in dying for what was created, experiencing a greater glory that it could have never experienced had it remained only a seed among other seeds. Maybe this is what Jesus was referring to when He said that we would share in His glory, if we followed Him in His death. (John 17:10, 22; Romans 8:17)
Is truly a love/hate relationship. The question is who do you love?







